Love yourself… Or else.
Our mission is to spread unconditional self-love, radical self-acceptance, and an alarming amount of compassion to every corner of the human psyche.
We believe that every part of you deserves love, including the parts you've spent years trying to hide, fix, or get rid of.
And while we're having a little fun with the idea of ominous self-love, there's something meaningful and fierce underneath the humor. Learning to love yourself can be a deeply transformative process, especially if you've spent much of your life struggling with self-criticism, feelings of unworthiness, or the belief that you need to change who you are to deserve love.
Real self-love is something we develop through our relationship with ourselves, through the ways we listen to our feelings, respond to our needs, and learn to meet even the most difficult parts of ourselves with compassion.
And we're here to support that process with a truly unreasonable amount of love and determination.
You have been warned. 🖤
An alarming amount of self-love is headed your way.
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An alarming amount of self-love is headed your way. 〰️
Real Self-Love resources:
Further Self-Love Is Inevitable
Your journey toward deeper self-love has already begun, and there is no turning back. 🖤
Here are some REAL self-love resources to help you deepen your relationship with yourself, heal old patterns of self-criticism and unworthiness, and experience more genuine love, compassion, and acceptance from the inside out.
Meditation for Secure Attachment with Yourself (Because Self-Love Isn’t a Feeling. It’s a Relationship)
What if you could create a relationship with yourself where you feel deeply loved, supported, and secure, even when life gets difficult? In this podcast episode, you'll learn how to build that kind of relationship using the science of attachment, and then experience a powerful somatic meditation designed to help you develop a lasting, embodied sense of being loved from the inside out.
Self-Love Affirmations That Don’t Feel Fake | Try “Iffirmations” Instead
If traditional self-love affirmations feel fake or bring up resistance, there's a gentler, more effective way to work with them. In this podcast episode, you'll discover “iffirmations,” a somatically informed alternative that helps you open to new possibilities and develop more loving, supportive beliefs about yourself without forcing yourself to believe something that doesn't feel true. Then, enjoy a guided self-love iffirmation meditation to help you soften self-criticism and cultivate genuine self-love and acceptance from the inside out.
Somatic Self-Love Retreat in Costa Rica
Join me in beautiful Costa Rica for a deeply nourishing week of rest, renewal, and reconnection with yourself. Through powerful somatic healing workshops, daily meditations, and gentle nervous system practices, you'll have the opportunity to heal old patterns, deepen your self-love, and create a more compassionate, supportive relationship with yourself from the inside out. All while surrounded by the incredible beauty of Costa Rica, with plenty of time to rest, play, and simply enjoy being alive. 🌴🐠🌺
Registration closes October 13th!
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